I just sort of went off on the infidelity board. I am sure my comments will NOT be well received. But I just get so frustrated sometimes. I did choose to have an affair, and it was wrong and terrible and hurtful. However, I stopped, I confessed, I no longer see, contact, hear from the OM at all. My H and I are working on our marraige. No I won't ever understand what it is like to be on the other side, nor would I want to. But I am sick of being lumped in with the cheaters who are still cheating or don't seem to care who they hurt. there was even one guy who posted that if a H forgave, he was letting the cheater have their cake and eat it too. how dare he say my husband is a doormat! Okay, I know I am really riled, but I am sick of being dredged through the mud when I am actually trying to do what is right. Does anyone else get frustrated about this?
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