there have been a lot of why's and how's asked here. I guess I have another question: why, instead of taking responsibility for a CHOICE, do we throw up all sorts of smoke screens and distarctions, from blaming our spouses to spouting some pseudo-sociological crap. Why are we so afraid to look at ourselves in the mirror and say, "Honey, what you did (or - sadly - are still doing) is wrong. Stop it." I mean, I cheated. yeah, my marraige was bad. But my husband was in the same bad marraige and he ddn't cheat. The only way I have gottEn through this is to grow up and admit that this choice was my responisiblity. Sure we were both to blame for having a bad marraige, but he wasn't the one opening MY legs for another man.
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