While you were in the middle of your affair, many of us (non-cheaters) now feel that we were 'rejected', which is why you read about self-esteem issues. Do you feel that you rejected your spouse while enjoying the affair more? My H denies that he rejected me. I think he doesn't understand how he treated me while he was 'in the fog' and believes that he was acting normally.I tell him that when you make a conscious decision to leave your spouse at home to date and go to bed with someone else, you are in fact, rejecting him/her.
Do you agree?
Do you agree?
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