I get confused by my feeling about all this sometimes. I actually find myself pitying my H an he is the one that is a serial cheater!!! I know he has low self esteem and I have tried to build up his ego but I know it goes deeper than what I can help him with. I feel sorry for him because one of his problems id pridefulness he simply cant bring himself to seek help for his problem and he tries to just handle it himself which always end up with him depressed and going up and down in his moods (this is also very hard for me to deal with but I try to show him love, support , and understanding) Sooo is it wrong to feel sorry for him? Shouldnt I just be completly angry at him for his weekeness? Oh I get angry at his behaivor but not really at HIM. Im not making excuses for him. But I cant seem to help feeling his pain in all this too.
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