i am the cheater..i am trying to find support out there from other wives who cheated on there husbands and are trying to rebuilding there marriage. my husband is very angry and says it will be alone time untill he forgives me and i understand. he knows that this happening, even as bad as it was, was an awakening for him on how badly he was treating me. even though he still doesnt understand why i did it, and it only lasted about 6 weeks, no physical contact, just a very emotional attachment over the internet,text, how do the wives just stop caring about the OM. I love my husband and am glad he is willing to giv me another chance, but how do you turn off the attachment to the OM, justlike that!!! is there anyone else out there. i count my blessings for the good days and the ability for my husband not to dwell on it. but when he does, wow, its like a hurricane in the house, i have tremendous, guilt, sadness and remorse for what i did. he knows that. i could keep talking about, but i want to know from those of you who are in the same situation or something similar.
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