My exhusband has emotional problems and that was affecing my marriage. i did all i could to make him feel good, I was so supportive. His emotional problems also involved a sexual dysfunction. but he never wanted to go to the doctor. anyway, he had an affair and that ended our marriage. we were divorced two weeks ago. My question is...is there a moment in which the cheater, after having ruined a marriage over this, regrets leaving a good woman who supported him in so many ways, and demosntrated so much love toward him? What is that feeling like? What crosses their minds? then there is the other behaviors I have noticed in him. he blames me for everything, and makes up a lot of lies. What is that all about??? for example, hehad his dinner prepared and served to him everyday...gourmet dinners. but he can readily tell me without blinking that I hardly cooked. and that is but one example. Why are there so many lies, about me, to my face. He does not realize that he is saying lies?
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