Hello everyone. My name is Nysh and I was just diagnosed today (2/14/2009) with cervical cancer. I dont know what stage I'm in...I have to go the a GYN physician for further testing. My mind is just so gone right now. I haven't told any of my family members yet...I dont know how. I dont know how to start the conversation to tell them I have cancer. I think I'm still in shock because I havent even cried yet. I dont know what to do. I feel kinda lost. I have 3 kids and me and me and my boyfriend are talking about marriage...I really dont know what to do next. I cant believe that it happened to me...ME...CANCER...WHY? I just need someone to talk to I guess, I need to vent... If anyone out there can give me some advice for how I tell my family, I would appreciate it so much. Where do I begin? What do I say? I'm not even sure I want people to know... does that sound crazy?
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