i hate this bs. now that i have called hospice in i have a sister that has decided to drop in on mother every now and then, which is great, my mom needs all of us right now. what i hate is her mouth, i let her attend a care plan meeting yesterday, never, ever again, you know the type, uninformed, but thinks she is. wants to ask questions and get specific details about things that for one, i have already had addressed, and two, its not happening because i said so. she doesnt understand hospice and i tried to explain, but she doesnt get it. too little too late as far as i am concerned. i will never say anything to her because i want my mother to see her children if they will come, but i will never forgive any of them for not even visiting her, but to come at the end and try to be as if she has any say in anything really got under my skin. i know it sounds bad, but i cant help it, after 3 1/2 yrs doing it alone and spending the first yr steady begging them all to if nothing else visit mother sometimes, even just once a month and being told "i dont have time" has put a sour taste in my mouth when it comes to my siblings that will never go away. i have sent word that no one is to go in and say anything to nursing home staff unless it is a serious situation, and they are to call me if they think something needs to be done or said, they do not get to go in and undo what little bit i have managed to get done because they dont have a clue. sorry, guess i needed to vent.
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