OK.. How do you handle it? A person asking the same question over and over and over and over. Did I mention that the same question is asked over and over and over and over? It is especially difficult whent it requires some gymnastics like "look at my feet..." This is sooo unlike my mom, but it has been soooo long since she was how she used to be... Then I feel guilty when I get frustrated and tell her that it is the 50th time she asked me that day, because she does not realize that and THAT upsets her... It scares me, too, because I know that my memory is going.. Like Mr. Spock of star trek, I will want to be locked away had hidden when that happens... I'm sorry... Just tell me how you handle someone asking the same stupid thing over and over and over and over..... Thank you! Clare
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