Hello, I'm so happy I found this site. I just need someone to listen to me without Me feeling guilty about feeling like People are tired of listening to me. My husband of 25 years is going through a hard time now and I am doing everything I can for him. I just recently took him to Mayo Clinic in Mn. He is being tested for Chariot,Marie,Tooth Disease (CMT). Thay have done a DNA test and we are waiting the results. He has also had 2 counts of brain surgery and is not able to work since age 21. I am the caregiver and work for insurance which isn't the best but better than nothing. He has recently become very hateful towards me. He says I have held hime back. He even told me he does not love me anymore but I just can't believe it. I was shocked the other day we had to go to attoney for another problem concerning our daughter and he came right out and asked the attorney to help him file for a divorce. The attorney declines stating that he can't represent either one of us. I just left crying my eyes out. I hope he is not using me to get through his health issues and then leave me with 20,000 dollars worth of bills. What can I do I still love him even though he is mean to me at times. I'm sorry this is so long I just needed to talk to someone. Thank you for listening.
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