the strength is in you, just have faith in yourself as much as your family and friends has in you,,,,hugs

Like Mommybear said.. Exactly.. Love D

Being a caregiver is one of the hardest jobs in this world especially if your taking care of a parent.

They took care of us all our lives and then roles reverse and for me it just didn't seem right. I had a hard time dealing and watching them deteriate.

I took care of my dad for the last two years. He passed away 10/31/07. We really didn't expect it.

I know things are hard and very difficult. But just some words of advice. Life is short for all of us so try not to stress on the little things. Parents are demanding of their children more than they would be of any other person. I don't know why. But they are. They also appreciate you in all that you do wether they tell you or not. Do the best you can and that is all you can do. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Easier said than done. Use caregivers here. They are the most wonderful people on the earth. The support here is tremendous. Write your journals and vent, scream and yell and you will feel better and we all understand.

Most of all take care of yourself. Find time for yourself and try to find good in everyday. Thngs seem to go easier when your in a good mood. Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.

I just wanted to add here.. This gal is my sister inlaw (the goodone) My husband and her first husband who passed away at a very early age were brothers.. she is as good as gold and I always will consider her family.. I love you.. Your strong I will be here for you Love D

You have all given me good advice, and yes it's things I knew but just wanted to ignor. Thank you so much for being there for me with wise words.

Hi Lonaka: I'm in the trenches with you....let me know if you'd like to chat. We are all here for you...look at my friends "on line now" and write if you need us. You'll usually get a reply right back. Sometimes I need someone to talk to right then and there...and when I've talked it out...I feel like going on again! Hugs to you.