Taking care of somone else is alot different then having someone live with you. I had no idea taking care of someone could be so challenging. This is much different than raising my kids. Watching Mom loose her ability to do even the must simple of tasks is very sobering. A couple of weeks ago I took my Mom to visit my sister, after she spent a few hours alone with her I picked her up. When I asked her what she thought it was as foregot how to talk, my sister was somewhat speechless. Not a common occurance. Parents loosing their abilities to be themselves has an interesting affect on their children. It makes you appreciate what have and had.
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