I am the caregiver for my husband. I recently had to rush husband to hospital with blood clots in lungs. He refused to go until I read him an article of what I thought his problem was and sure enough I was right. The doctor in ER said he owes me a big thankyou for saving his life. I never got that thank you. Anyway I took his clothes home to wash and in shirt pocket found 2 receipts for saving accoun deposits in his brothers name and receipt for payment of $600.00 payable to an attorney for legal fees. I didn't think it was a good idea to approach him in hospital so after he was home a couple of days I asked him about the pocket stuff. He said the legal receipt was for a divorce and the other 2 deposit receipts were his brothers and he had access in case his children needed it. I didn't believe a word of it. I finally got him to tell the truth that it was his. He received 2 inheritance checks and he didn't want me to know about them. I am just sick and feel like he stabbed me in the heart. Who is going to take care of him now? He found out yesterday that he has Lupus. What is he thinking? I know he has a lady friend that he chats with all the time and calls her long distance. I am in shock and know that I have to be strong but it is hard. I need support now he is going to have to find help elshewhere. 25 years down the tube. Only good thing of all the years of stress with him not working is our daughter. Please pray for me and give me strength. I didn't ask for this he did.
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