I'm 28 with a young baby and my mom has terminal cancer. My brother and I care for her. She can still do enjoyable things sometimes like go to the store, a movie, dinner, etc. depending on the day. She has a few brothers and sister who DO NOTHING. They rarely call and occasionally take her out to eat. I am so angry at them because I know it hurts my mom and because my brother and I never get a break or have a day to ourselves where we know she is doing something fun. They basically just live their lives like they always did and my brother and I are deteriorating b/c we have no help. Sometimes I think when my mother passes, I'll tell them how I feel. It's kind of hard not to now. Has anyone experienced this? How do you handle this?
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