I've been at my job for years. About over a year ago we obtained a new manager. She is awful. She was promoted within and never had managerial experience. She keeps adding to our plates saying it's our job. A few of us who have been doing the job longer all agree it's not. She uses the grey area alot. We all know she is full of it because she doesn't understand it. I'm currently looking for a new job and it's a shame I have to leave my employer of all these years because of a bad boss. I've been looking at other jobs within the company and have been turned down. Because the role and dept I'm in has been really degraded at all these years due to poor mgmt like my boss. However that is what the head hancho wants, is people to obey his command so he doesn't have to work. For now, I'm struggling to swallow my pride and do the BS work she wants us to do.
I have a toxic family, (parents and sister) who always enforce their views and opinions like they're facts and want to be right. I am nothing like them. I have an aunt who is a very peaceful, empathetic soul...we get along well and she is like a diamond in the rough in my family. Anyway, I am planning on moving back to my home city and had organised to stay with my aunt. My family are paranoid...
Does anyone ever feel this? I do it a lot in periods of big change. Sometimes they're answers I am seeking and I don't even need them yet. I have never been one who can trust a process. I sometimes go overboard and fear terrible things will happen. Deep down I know this to not be true however I still feel it.