Hello ! YOur mom is lucky to have you! Can't really say how your mom will do, it is so different in each person. Love, laughter and being out and about is always a good thng though!

How old is your Mom? Her dx sure don't sound good but hopefully the chemo will shrink the tumors. I know alot of women who have lived along time with metastizied BC,

Was your MOm's cancer 11 years ago breast cancer also?

just wondering, I am a 1 year survivor and still have the fear of recurrance!

zmy prayers are with you and your family! Try and help your mom eat to keep up her strength!

Hugs
Steph

You're a good daughter. All I can say is keep possitive, smile in front of your mother, try to get her to laugh and try to take her places like an ice cream store, park, zoo. I know she is probably tired so try smaller places if you have them around. Some places have small petting zoos or even just a ride in a park. But try to get her out and smiling. It's the best medicine.

Dear texasbell, I know what you are going thru, this is a very difficult time, I really hope she gets better, my sister never did, she had the same simptoms, maybe I am being to honest with you, but the truth is that I wished somebody would have told me that my sister was not gonna be with us for a long time, so my best advise for you is to tell her how much you love her, give her lots of kisses and hugs, be with her as much as you can, she is not going to have energy to do lots of things, but my sister really loved for me to be next to her, to talk, to masagge her feet (she really loved this), and just to really be there for her, I know its very hard to accept all of this, but believe me this will help. I am here for you if you need to talk.
Hugs.
Irma

this does not sound promising, but i do believe in miracles. treasure every moment with your mom, take pictures with her. 3 years ago my mom was diagnosed with stage iv adenocarcinoma in her abd. i'm pretty sure she had ovarian ca, but it was never a definitive diagnosis because mom didn't want any treatment. July 21st. 2004 was the day they told us and she passed away Aug. 14, 2004. so that is why i tell you to treasure every moment. God Bless your mom and your whole family. stick together, mom is going to need you. tell her everything you want her to know. i got to do that. i'm so grateful i did. tell her how very much she is loved.

(((texasbell and mom)))))) I want to add a prayer for both of you. You are a wonderful daughter and I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.
EllaBlue

Honey, we are in the same boat. Both my mom and I thought we'd beat it but she was recently diagnosed with liver and bone cancer, She is angry and depressed. She was unable to tolerate the anti-homonal drug they first put her on to stop her hormones which would slow the cancer down. Now she is on a shot to try to do that same thing only once a month. The doctors only say that they are attempting to put her in remission, No time table no ideas about what to expecet. When i find more I will let you now. Valerie