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Since we're all here on DS on a Saturday night, we probably have time for a little reflection.
Everyone makes lists of what they want in a perfect mate. Has there ever been a post listing our best qualities? You know, the ones that would show up on other people's lists of what they are looking for in a perfect mate.
I'll go first. I'm honest, a good communicator, have a good - altho somewhat off beat- sense of humor. I love the ocean. I like to read, good movies, riding w/the top down (the car's, not mine altho with the right person, who knows;), slow dancing, a good meal at a nice restaurant. I'm still rediscovering myself, so I'm sure there's more, but my mom told me to always leave 'em guessing...
Anyone else?
Everyone makes lists of what they want in a perfect mate. Has there ever been a post listing our best qualities? You know, the ones that would show up on other people's lists of what they are looking for in a perfect mate.
I'll go first. I'm honest, a good communicator, have a good - altho somewhat off beat- sense of humor. I love the ocean. I like to read, good movies, riding w/the top down (the car's, not mine altho with the right person, who knows;), slow dancing, a good meal at a nice restaurant. I'm still rediscovering myself, so I'm sure there's more, but my mom told me to always leave 'em guessing...
Anyone else?
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