I've been doing a lot of self reflection this past couple of weeks since the ex and I broke up. I've been thinking a lot about how I begin to feel in relationships. I've been dumped so many times that I think I sabotage my relationships now. You know how you feel when a relationship is in the beginning (honeymoon) phase, everything is fun, happy, loving, etc., then after a few months the real you/and them comes out. I've been thinking of the pattern of my past few relationships, and when I get to the reality phase of a relationship I become very insecure. This I believe is where my relationships fail. When I become insecure I think I push these men away, or maybe become clingey. Any ideas or advice for me? I have an appointment w/ my counselor later this week, but if anyone out there has anything for me to think about before then I would love to hear it. I've been very very depresses this week, and need to work on this issue, as I think it is the main source of my depression. Thanks all.
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