FIRST LET ME SAY WHETHER YOU ARE MALE OR FEMALE YOU CAN GO ON WITHOUY YOUR MATE. DIVORCE IS HARD. BUT YOUR INNER STRENGTH WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH. TO ME GOD CONTROLS MY INNER STRENGTH BECAUSE YOUR STRENGTH IS IS COMPROMISED OF A LOT OF DIFFERENT THINGS SUCH AS SPIRITUALITY, MENTALITY, AND EMOTIONS. AND WE ALL KNOW WHEN SOMEONE ATTACKS US AS A PERSON OUR DEFENSE GOES UP. WELL U NEED TO USE THAT DEFENSE TO NOT SHOW YOUR EX OR SOON TO BE EX YOUR WEAKNESS WHY CAUSE THEY ALREADY KNOW HOW TO PUSH YOUR BUTTONS. SO WHEN U STOP REACTING TO THEIR LIL GAMES THEN THEY WILL STOP DISHING IT OUT. TO ME IT IS A WAY OF CONTROL. THEY KNOW HOW TO MAKE YOU FEEL DEPRESSED, AND HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM. DO NOT UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES REACT TO THEIR IGNORANCE, CAUSE IF THEY TRULY LOVED YOU THEN THEY WOULDN'T DO ANYTHING TO HURT YOU. YOU CAN BE OR REGAIN YOUR MENTAL STRENGTH. YOUR KIDS ARE WATCHING YOU AND HOW YOU REACT SO LADIES PLEASE DON'T LET YOUR GIRLS SEE YOU ALLOW A MAN TO DISRESPECT YOU. IT SHOWS THEM THAT IT'S OK FOR A MAN TO BE THAT WAY. NO I AM NOT PERFECT BUT IF YOU READ MY STORY I BEEN THERE. AND WHEN I WANTED TO SAY PLEASE TAKE ME BACK I COULDN'T WHY BECAUSE THE PAIN I WAS THROUGH NEVER PHYSICAL BUT YET WORDS DO CUT. I KNEW I COULDN'T LET HIM THINK HE HAD ME MENTALLY. IF A PERSON HAS YOU MENTALLY THEY CAN CONTROL YOU. SO A PERSON CAN ONLY DO WHAT YOU ALLOW! STOP THE CONTROL NOW. YOPU WILL GET LONLEY BUT WHEN U HAVE KIDS YOU ARE NEVER ALONE. I KNOW YOU WANT THAT COMPASSION BUT AT THE TIME YOU GOING THROUGH THE ONLY COMPASSION YOU CAN GIVE YOURSELF IS THE LOVE OF GOD, FAMILY, AND YOURSELF! I HOPE YOU ALL STEP INTO SOME TYPE OF SPIRITUALITY IM NOT BIG ON ORGANIED BUT I KNOW GOD ANSWERS PRAYERS SWEETIE I FOUGHT CANCER AND WON MY BATTLE THAT WAS 16 YRS AGO SO I BE DAMN IF I WILL ALLOW A MAN TO HURT ME WHEN I DIDN'T ALLOW MYSELF TO BE HURT OR BE IN PAIN WITH CANCER. NO PRESCRIBED DRUGS WAS NOT MY ANSWER BUT PRAYER WAS. AND AS FAR AS THE MEDS I DIDN'T ALWAYS TAKE THEM SO I KNOW IT WAS SOMETHING BEYOND MY DOCS, MYSELF CONTROL. TRY IT ONE TIME BE NICE TO THE EX THEY WILL BE WONDERING IF U LOST YOUR MIND WHEN THEY THE ONE ACTING CRAZY AND IT WORKS. SO DOES PRAYER! GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE! MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL! I LOVE YOU!
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