Ok...so I met this wonderful guy that is exactly what I have wanted. He is sooo caring of my feelings and not to mention my children adore him. I feel like something wonderful could happen between us and is, but there are days that I get that feeling...that little voice in my head that says no....you really don't like him you think you do, and then I think about my ex. Normally as soon as those feelings would start I would be gone, but something keeps making me think about how wonderful a person he is to me and my girls. I guess I expect that love that i had with my ex husband to happen. It was instant! I was head over heals for him. I would be lying if I said that I still didn't love him. I always here people say that you grow to love someone because you have to get to know them. So, I guess I would just like to know if anyone has been in my shoes. Should I hang in there with this guy and give him a chance, or let him go as not to hurt him. I absolutely do not want to do that. I have been very open with him on the struggles that I have with my feelings and he has been very patient. I mean it is crazy. I may go like three days and be happy and then I will have a day where I am like I don't think so. I just want some advice, or to know if this is normal. Thanks! :)
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