I think you just met my EX

no way!

and to answer your question- no -- hopefully someday he will get tired of totured me.. but no -- you could be next!

Definitely no - I have no respect for anyone who cannot take their responsibility and support whom they need to - that goes both ways. There is no excuse for not supporting your children - none!

NO!!!

I dunno, my lawyer tells me they've not met many or any they can remember doing what I'm doing. They say I'm paying double what my CS would be.

I'm paying all their core bills, mortgage, gas, elect, water, storage, our car insurance and umbrella, my daughter's college, son's braces and she hits me up for more on the kids' behalf.

So what am I doing wrong? LOL

No, its that simple

No, I would not respect someone who would harm thier own children just to spite thier x.

Sounds like a lame excuse to me.

Oh no, I didn't meet this jerk, I married him. I was wondering what women would say to him once he spins his sad story about our marriage. And starts asking women out. I know this sounds mean but I hope he gets shot down...often. Such a butthead!

I try to be fair, listen to the other persons woes and reasons.. but.. it would be a truly tuff pill for me to swallow to be around someone like that.. sounds like my Ex.

I would definitely not date them. Because if he'll do it to her soon enough(if you get involved) he'll do it to you and your kids.

Not No..but HELL NO! I've been "married" before this current break up. Support for my son went into an account, what wasn't used specifically for him..was handed over, to him, when he went to college! where do support payers get the lame brained idea that the custodial parent "lives" off this paultry amount?

I still had access to my ex's bank online banking records and found a lot of entries for withdrawals and purchases at liquor stores and Pubs/Nightclubs. It made me very upset that the money I have paid could be being mis-spent. I pay 3x the amount required for child support and sometimes I feel I shouldn't pay it. I however made the decision that all I could do is make sure the kids were happy and that's all I could do. I pay because I feel I should . Guaranteed there are those who would believe otherwise but I stand by my decision

No..to both questions.

I guess he feels like that because I stayed home with the babies and I didn't have any income. But I work,(now) I support me and them all by myself. I'm just in a fowl mood. Want to kick his butt a little. I know that is childish, but I am so tired of all this, court, mediation, worry, ect. I am doing my part, when will he step up and do his?