
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

deleted_user
Today I found out the results of the army case review committee findings regarding my stbx abusive husband. They found him guilty of domestic violence and emotional abuse by a vote of 6 to 1. What this means is that he will have this finding on his military records for the next 40 years. He will be required to take any and all counseling our case manager deems necessary and it may or may not affect his ability to get security clearance jobs in the future depending on the type of work. The better news is that now the army will probably pay for my moving costs to get away from him and future counseling costs - yay!
The bad part is that now he will be even angrier and even more vengeful - as if being violent, locking me out of the house, filing for divorce, abusing porn, placing a personal ad while we were married and emptying all of the accounts weren't good enough....
The bad part is that now he will be even angrier and even more vengeful - as if being violent, locking me out of the house, filing for divorce, abusing porn, placing a personal ad while we were married and emptying all of the accounts weren't good enough....

deleted_user
congratulations I don't think he would have been happy no matter the verdict.

deleted_user
You could just bump this one back up to the top ;)

deleted_user
I'm right there with you my husband has been abusing me for years and now that he kicked us out and I didn't come crawling back he is out to destroy me anyway that he can

hockeymom5592
I find that with my x, I have to take one battle at a time and cover it, win it. So what if is pisses him off? Everything pisses him off that is out of his control. Good for you! Celebrate, and the move forward to the next thing! Each one will make you stronger!

deleted_user
With me there is a phrase that keeps coming to mind that my father always used when I was a teenager " Give some one enough rope and they'll hang them selves" My husband just called my ex to get him to testify against me and now he is on my side that rope is getting tighter
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