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i dont like saying this but i dont want it this year. anyof the holidays. he is STILL living here and i just dont know if i can open gifts here with all 4 of us on xmas morn
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I do feel for you.
I will be decorating my very own place...for the first time..its MY condo, I can do whatever I want! I'm going to give gifts to Senior citizens at a convalescent center. These folks filled out "wish lists", so far I've gotten a couple of "knitters" in the home gifts!
Last year I never put my Santa hat for deliveries the week of Christmas..well I dug that out too and I plan on wearing it for the kids, who will be out of school that last week before the big day. I'm going to bake cookies and bring them to work for my fellow hard working co workers!
Those of you who feel you are in a bad situation, if you have children..why not make the day ALL ABOUT THEM! let them select foods for the meal, help prepare the meal. Ok granted some child might want Lucky Charms..but heck, no reason why you can't get a small condiment server (those 1/2 cup pyrex bowls), and let the kid have some Lucky Charms with whatever other foods are prepared.
Who knows, with enough creativity you all might just find some new Holiday traditions get started!
If your stuck in the same house with the stbx and you don't have Children..go to a friends, a relatives..or better yet... volunteer to go serve the Holiday meal at a homeless shelter, or senior citizen center, or VA Hospital. Go find the sale bin at a book store..stock up on some childrens books and then sled on over to the Hospital and pass them out to the kids. C'mon folks, help me out here!