My X is apologizing and asking for forgiveness on many occassions. He send messages talking about sex. I was married for 21 years. We had good times and bad times. I enjoy thinking about the good times but the bad times I am trying to get our of my mind. He thinks forgivenss is getting back together. What is true forgivenss? How do I regain friendship with him without the sex? I don't want a sexual relationship with him. Why can't he see to my needs without the sex? I divorce him bec he was not faithful and drugs were involved. What a complete nightmare. He is a good person but I can't handle his backage. To much stress. I am open to any comments. Thanks
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