Frustrated. My X has one afternoon a week and every other weekend. He never goes beyond that, never asks for more. Which is fine with me. My frustration comes when the day comes he is supposed to take them, he never calls, texts, answers my calls nothing. He thinks we just sit here and wait for him to come by. Then he will come by or call last minute whether he will be here or not. I have been forced to go back to work so I have to arrange babysitting well before the night before. Then if I say well I made other arrangements then I am accused of keeping his kids from him, I make his life hard I MAKE IT HARD, please if you will remember he is the one who left me and my son one day crying in the driveway or I am a b....h. It is making me crazy. I suggested talking on Sun nights to arrange the week but frankly I am tired of bending over backwards for him and feeling like I am pulling his feet to get him to be involved in his children's lives. He has said I don't do anything for him, I don't? I have to call him to arrange the schedule, print outs of every amount of money I pay for the kids and where it goes for his taxes, so he will reimburse me, I was nice enough to even try giving him a schedule of upcoming activities and events, which he left on my counter. I really care about this person or at least the person who I thought he was, but I am tired. I have enough to do to support me and my children without having to rely on him. I am trying my best just to survive I feel like I am a secretary. My kids cry and feel bad but He never calls between the one day he sees them til the weekend, he never calls them! Not even to say goodnight, i love you, how was school, nothing!! Who does this? Sorry I hope this makes sense tried to shorten it. Am I wrong to be frustrated? Any suggestions?
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