Funny you should say that. My Sis-in-Law said something similar awhile back. She told me I need to go out and just get laid. WHAT?!?!?!

WTF is wrong with people.

I agree. Thats what everyone tells me too.

I heard all that too.
Well I f i go get laid ,huh am I using that person say like my x did hmm

Yeah like meaningless sex is going to fix the problem of me being brokenhearted because the ex was running around having meaningless sex!

Some people just don't have a clue at all. So they revert to the standard Hollywierd mentality that "getting laid" cures all.

People who say those things obviously have no idea what it's like to be on the emotional rollercoaster we're riding. Why add more to complicate all that we're already going through?

Guys here the same stuff....amazing!

Should have said "HEAR" not here

Worst thing my X said to me-Was he wished I could just go out and get laid so I could get over him. Excuse me, marriage, vows, covenants=random sex is supposed to erase that-at least I know it did for him.

The next door lady offered me a Curtsey f.....

The honest truth is I'm scared to death of the first time I'm with another woman.

OK, I get the prize!

my stbx told me he wanted me to "go find a man and have sex" with him - married over 20 yrs - ONLY been with him and the jerk, tells me (over and over) to go have an affair or JUST sex!? He even started pointing men out to me!????

Okay strong-you get the prize-how could a man want someone else to fuck their wife.

Glad, someone finally said someone about this. I was starting I was just strange for not wanting to at this point in my life.

Still having problem with the online flirting( if you can really call it that). I feel like I am cheating on him but he is moving out and already moved on. Also been a while since I had another man say anything like that to me.

I feel like some of them only want to talk about sex and not want to talk about other things.

I have a few friends suggest that I go out find a companion for the evening....I finally asked a friend why and he said it might make me feel loved again, even if for a little while and it also will help relieve some stress.....I can see the relieving stress part, but I am not about to go sleep with someone to relieve some stress! Isn't that what excercise is for (and ice cream?!) Different strokes I guess....

It is especially bad when it comes as an offer from a male friend. I can't even imagine using one of my friends that way. I could never look at that person the same way again!