So I just dont get it!!!! My ex is the one who ended everything between us! He is the one who told me to leave and go home! Now I am home and I have been home for about a month now and I am trying to get my stuff from Ohio. I got a job as a car salesman and I email him and tell him I need my heels and nice pants and shirts that I left behind and I would send money for him to ship it! and when I got my first pay check I would send more money to him to send the rest of my things. He replied okay I will I promise! Well yesterday I get 3 boxes in the mail and he told me he sent me 4 and I open them up and the boxes were filled with socks and underwear that I left behind and the things I asked him to send are still in Ohio. So I call him today asking why he sent the wrong things and he said he didnt want to talk to me anymore and hung up! Now I dont understand how he is the one who is mad at me! I send him money to ship my things all I ask is for him to put then in boxes and ship them! Since I have been home he has told me I dont want to talk to you cause he is in a healing process! What healing process???????? hes the one who broke up with me! Now I dont understand why he cant just sent me my things....He is 25 years old and I am only 21 and I am acting more adult than him. And he tells me that he hates me and that I am just being stupid! He refuses to talk to me to talk about how to do this getting my stuff back. He tells me thats he is mad at me!!! How is he mad at me! He told me to leave! He told me that he didnt love me anymore! What do I do? I am at my wits end! I just want my stuff! I tell him if you give me my stuff I will leave you alone! I wont call email write anything anymore I just want my things! I tell him the sooner I get my things the sooner I will leave him alone! I dont know what kind of games he is playing but I am just tired of it! And I am slowly moving past hurt to just plain pissed off! I dont understand why he is being like this!
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