Be careful what you wish for....my stbx called me on my way home from work!!! *insert confused face* He was wondering why I didn't call him all weekend! WTF?!?! I told him, "Why would I you call if it didn't have anything to do with the bills or the property?" He says, "Uh...just to say HI!" I said, I can't be your friend...it's too painful. Then he starts arguing that we can be friends! I said, I just want to figure out what's going on with the bills & stuff...we can do that through email, but I can't have you calling me up. I started talking about why he doesn't want to work on our marriage & why he doesn't even want to try. He said we did try and nothing changed! I told him no, we didn't try...we went to one couseling appointment!!!! That was it!!! & he gave up. I had to stop myself, because I was starting to go back in to "begging mode" when I started off so strong in the conversation. Ya know? So I bucked up & told him to contact me about the bills through email only and no, we couldn't be friends & hung up. I just wish he would realize that the lifestyle he is choosing over our marriage SUCKS & that he would want to change! :( What the hell does he want from me!?! He didn't pick up my calls when I was angry or upset & he was out with his friends!!! Now he wonders why I didn't call him??? What gives!?! *Mad face* Any thoughts would be help. Thanks. :)
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