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For those of you who dont know my situation. My stbx left me four months ago. I raised one of my daughters from her previous relationship since she was 1 she is now 6. We have a daughter who is two together. Over thanksgiving Alexis(6yr old) told me she was scared she didnt want another Daddy. She has been really sick so i sent an email asking how she was. Reply was fine. i asked my stbx if i was going to see Alexis this weekend. Her reply was no, Alexis doesnt want to come to my house nor see me. She said she wont give any reason. I have always treated her like my own. I am lost for words. Im in so much pain i dont know what to do. If anyone has gone through this and has any suggestions they would be greatly appreciated. Sorry this is so long. For the record i dont discipline her nor yell at her so i have no idea where this is coming from. Thanks.
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Kids love structure and routine. Somehow, despite your absence, you need to create that. Also continuously reinforce your concern and love for them; that you will always be around. Many children are frightened by horror stories of their classmates' whose dad has disappeared and they never see them.
Depending on how your state views it will determine what your legal rights are. Unfortunetly not being her biological Father can make it diffacult.
Whatever the LEGAL, doesn't matter you love her as your own child and I'm sorry you have to endure a cold hearted b@$% of a stbx that does not care how you feel.
I hope you may you find justice here and get custody rights.
I don't know if you are on civil terms w/your STBX, but I'd write her a letter/email explaining how strongly you feel about seeing both of your daughter. Make sure to only speak about the girls and be positive. It would take a truly heartless soul to not see what she would be doing to her daughter by not letting her see her daddy.
Huge hugs man.