i could never say never, but no. no children, no wife - but, i am open to an exclusive relationship. but things can change, my arm is always being twisted.

I don't think I would do this all over again any time soon. Plus my divorce was final on friday state of wi can't do it again for at least 6 mths. Belive me last thing on my mind

Yes I would absolutely! I loved being married. I just hated the abuse. I love to love, I just hate the pain!

Only if I could be sure my obviously broken picker was fixed.

i personally think about it. i think i deserve better and i know there has got to be someone out there that will love me the way i will love them.

I have sworn over and over.. that I want someone to slap me awake if I ever even considered the thought.. let alone even come close to it.

Now.. 8 months after the divorce...and well.... now I am lonely... stop me please.

I know.. I should get another dog to keep me company.. and well a dog would at least be loyal.

while I was separated and in the midst of the divorce I did meet someone.

He taught me a lot of things.. one that.. I am worthy of love... that I deserve to be happy and.. he taught me to Never Say Never.

I had to let him go.. circumstances.. timing.. logistics...but now.. in the aftermath of the divorce.... hell ya.. I might consider it... not just about me though.. I have young children... so still putting them first...always first.

I would consider it again...but not anytime in the near future...

yes i would

No, No and No. Been there, done that. After all, the committment is with the heart, I think, not a piece of paper. And so easy to get into and so hard to get out of.....

Well, I lose my alimony if I marry so I'm thinking more comitted relationship. But yes, I hope that I will find someone who I can love and who will love me back someday.

No way in He##. I don't know that I would ever be able to trust a man again.

definitely...when the time, and the person is right. i'll know it...

It's been nearly a week for me, too, but at this point, I'm pretty dead set against another marriage. Though I tried to remain hopeful for this marriage, some sense of reality set in today. And no, I don't even want to save this one anymore. I'd rather be alone and concentrate on my son. Not saying it'll never happen again, but just... no.

I know that eventually I need to get out and do new things, meet new people. I am feeling sooooooo cautious. A friend of mine advised that I be very particular about the situations I put myself into and to be careful the type of people I associate with... I wasn't looking to meet someone when I met my stbx and here I am 12 years later...

Gosh I'm rambling. I think I would prefer not to get married ever again.

Ditto, lilsam.