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Would I really gain anything from knowing

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I have been thinking about my relationship and I just wonder would I gain anything from knowing he is with someone else or was thinking of being with someone else. My sister thinks he has to be with someone else because why would he leave a ten year relationship to be on his own. I asked him three different times he denied it. I don't know what to think part of me thinks that he is having some sort of mid life crisis at the age of 37 because he is finally going to graduate from college. I just wondered if it helped or if it made it worse.
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Except a battered ego, a demolished heart, an overactive imagination, and nightmares for days.
That being said, I do feel pain and sadness when I find out that he's sleeping with yet another woman. Right now, whenever those images of him having sex with another woman gets into my head, I take deep breathes and blank out my head. Think about happy stuff, like your family or a big bowl of Coldstone ice cream.
You'll probably know in time. Just keep taking care of yourself and do what you need to do for YOU!
Hugs to you hon......
Brokenheart-my H denied it to my face on two totally separate occasions. Trust me, if that's what's going on it will come out. I'm not saying that's the case with you but please focus on yourself right now and making yourself a stronger person.
She was off having her fun and I was left home alone dealing with my exes crap.
I was so messed up emotionally and mentally, I was impotent for a little over a month because my imagination went nuts filling in the details. I was miserable because it wasn't like a TV show where you can turn the channel, it's inside of you and it follows you.
So yeah, it can have mental, emotional and physiological results.