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just curious how many guys here would seek spousal support from their ex wife if they could.....my lawyer says i can even though i have a full time job. He said that since she makes 3 to 4 times what i make and that our marriage is over 10 years - our life styles and so on i could possibly get this. I feel a little weird about it but thought i would get a vote from my friends at DS. I am guessing that if it were a woman in my shoes they would do it...maybe im wrong. Depending on what mood i am in I almost think i should seek it...but the majority of the time i feel i should not. Let me hear what you have to say! Thanks in advance!!!
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do what you feel comfortable with, you have to live with your choice either way. Them rules are them rules.
seriously though, get yours.
When we got together 11 years ago, I had the assets, he had piles of debt. I paid all the bills while he paid off his credit cards with his income - took him 9 years to pay them off.
In the meantime, he never saved a dime so the only money we had in the bank was what I put away from my income over the years and my inheritance from when my mother died.
Would I ask for spousal if I needed it? Hell yes!
Comes down to how you'd feel about the situation/yourself!
Make a plan. You decide, within your values.
NOT being classified as a Gold Digger...priceless!