Why is it that my husband of 7 years is trying to make it sound to me like I am the reason OUR marriage isnt/ or didnt work? Why do they do that.....? the other person that is? I feel furious... I love him and miss him but HATE him for some of the things he has said and made me feel...ohh and CUPID.. huh..i could just put that arrow through him right now:-( I am sorry to sound so crazy on my first post.. but I am. I dont know what to do. Briefly, and remind you this is my first post so I want to catch you up. My name is Tricia I live in INDIANA... no children married for 7 years. I am a full time nursing student and graduate in June with my LPN and June of 08 with my RN. My hubby is the financial person. I do not work because school is 40 a week. I am pooped and my grades were dropping trying to work and do school. So, now after years of his pain pill addiction, stealing them from my mother who is fighting stage IV colon and liver cancer, I said that is it.. i have had enough. Well of course he uses the back door to his life and runs to his mothers house... who is so blind and couldnt see that her son is really sick and needs help. So he is there now and been there for 7 days and just making it sound like everything is great... and i need to change or he isnt coming back and he is off pills now and going to the methadone clinic....whoopty whoop. He calls me tonight on VDAY.. and says.. tomorrow i am having my direct deposit switched to my savings... (which I am not on). so that means that I am not going to have any type of living expense. I looked up some laws in indiana and found out that there is such thing as spousal support and they go by education levels of each and money. well he works makes ok money and i dont work and am a full time student. i had no education when i met him. Does anyone know if it sounds like i can get it.. or just omg..where do i start. I am so sad, hurt, scared, lonely, bitter.. just a disaster.. i apologize for the long message but if u made it this far.. please respond..i need all the new friends i can have going through this. My yahoo id is cr8zy4jj and i am on in the evenings? also if someone does chat in here..how do you get to it? Talk to you later and for everyone out there with a lonely spot in their heart.... ((((((( everyone ))))))) i give you some of me to help:--)
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