recently about 2 months ago my ex (who has my child and is currently living with me at my parents) broke up with me because of horrible things that i have done....well before we broke up i knew that i had become the person that i never wanted to be and realized that i loved her...I did what she had wanted me to do, i bought her a ring and prepared to ask her to marry me. but i wanted to change who i was first, and become the person i should of been, and the father i should have been first. well not 2 months after making this decision she broke up with me...i saw it as an opportunity to do the things i wanted like soul searching and stopping drinking and smoking pot. Well what i didnt expect was for her to start dating someone witin 2 weeks of us breaking it off (we had dated for almost 3 years at this point). I loved her so much it hurt, but i was determined to complete this fase of rebirth and then present to her my new and reborn self and ask for another chance (when we broke up she said that there was a chance for us in the future). so finally about a month ago i talked to her about everything and she said that she couldnt because she really liked this other guy...recently she has been showing and telling me of there still being a good possibility of us getting back together in the future, and i showed her the ring and talked about everything. I have heard her tell him that she loves him before they get off the phone... I asked her "so you love him" and she said that it was just something that they say to each other, and i asked if she has ever said it to me and not meant it...she said no...talking to her freinds they tell me that she does still love me and sees that i have been trying, i take care of my son more, i clean up around the house, do dishes and laundry...have been for a while...but she apparently likes this other guy a lot. Here is the kicker though. When we first started dating she contracted herpies simplex and didnt know, she gave it to me and then we found out what it was (no matter what you may believe she seriously didnt know at that point) our son now has it too. But yet she hasnt told her current "thing" about this...and her response is because she hasnt had an outbreak in a while. I love her a lot, and i dont want to give up on this...i need advice...i am making moves to move out...but its hard because i know she still loves me but is too hurt right now to give me a second chance...can anyone give me ideas on what to do...just to let you know she is the only girl for me (even though i may not be the only man for her) i love her and nothing will ever change that...i dont want to date or marry anyone else...i need some serious advice please help!!!
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