Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I forget who posted a reply with a link to womensinfidelity.com but thank you. I read the article 3 times and understood something new each time. I also got the sense that men are just as prone to the infidelity as women. But anyay, it got me thinking.
A woman and a man meet, fall in love and this is it, for life. But biochemistry is not idle. Some beautiful women contract cancer or MS or any of these other diseases that they were genetically disposed towards. Some survive, some do not. What if there was a 'love hunger' gene in people that made them forsake the love and security that they acknowledge that they were experiencing, all that they had dreamed of wanting. So later in their lives this gene 'kicks in' and so separation and divorce become realities. Some survive, some do not. My apologies to those on this website because their ex was an abuser, not related to this theory.
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A woman and a man meet, fall in love and this is it, for life. But biochemistry is not idle. Some beautiful women contract cancer or MS or any of these other diseases that they were genetically disposed towards. Some survive, some do not. What if there was a 'love hunger' gene in people that made them forsake the love and security that they acknowledge that they were experiencing, all that they had dreamed of wanting. So later in their lives this gene 'kicks in' and so separation and divorce become realities. Some survive, some do not. My apologies to those on this website because their ex was an abuser, not related to this theory.
No need to reply.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I am actively engaged in a loving, caring campaign whenever we commuicate so that she feels loved and respected. And if one day she says that she made a mistake, can we get back together, I shall say no. Let her feel what has been lost. This means that I am actually acting against my values (Value #1: never intentionally do harm to another human being) but I am learning something new about me every day. The situational ethics at play here are intriguing, to say the least.