I just couldn't get back to sleep for anything. Since my depositions last Friday, I've been fighting depression and tears...Yesterday was actually a good day and I was able to hand everything (all my worries) over to God and trusted him to deal with it. I still prayed about Him giving me an airtight solution to some of the tactics that my x is trying in order to get more money. Last night, God gave it to me...I know it was Him. One way x is trying to get money is as follows...after we'd been married about a year, we decided to try to buy a house. His boss ended up telling us that he'd give us $10,000 to help. According to my x, the check was made out ONLY to him....I don't remember as this was back in 1993. We only used $6,000 on the downpayment and the rest went to buy appliances and things for the house. Anyway we purchased this house in August 1993. A year later my x was voluntarily transferred to another state (I had to give up persuing my education and be a stay at home mom). Our house didn't sell right away and we went ahead and purchased a house in our new state in April of 1995 and rented out the first house. The first house ended up FINALLY selling in 1996 and the proceeds went to paying off credit cards and stuff like that...x may have bought some expensive golf clubs, etc. With the dates overlapping like they did, there's NO WAY we could have used his "gift" from his boss to buy the second home...as a matter of fact, that money is GONE. Now all I need are the deeds showing when we purchased each home and when each was sold to prove my point. That there's no way to tell where the money we were given went. Thank you, Lord. You answered my prayers...
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