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Hi again,
I have been wanting to talk to my kids about our D but my STBX is afaid of talking to them. 1 because we don't know about coustody and 2 because she is just afraid. We are in month 4 of the D and they average about 9 months in this state. We have been to court 1 time and are going back 2 weeks from now. DO I tell them on my own? Do I tell her I will talk to them on such and such a day and be there or I will do it by myself?
I know she wants me to move out but my attny told me not to. I don't understand why she wants me to move out but not tell the kids. I feel that will make me look real bad by telling them as i'm moving. "daddy and I are getting a divorce and by the way, he's moving out tonight". OMG, talk about stress on the kids!
What would you do, or what DID you do? I would hate to go behind her back but I gotta do whats best for them also.
HELP
I have been wanting to talk to my kids about our D but my STBX is afaid of talking to them. 1 because we don't know about coustody and 2 because she is just afraid. We are in month 4 of the D and they average about 9 months in this state. We have been to court 1 time and are going back 2 weeks from now. DO I tell them on my own? Do I tell her I will talk to them on such and such a day and be there or I will do it by myself?
I know she wants me to move out but my attny told me not to. I don't understand why she wants me to move out but not tell the kids. I feel that will make me look real bad by telling them as i'm moving. "daddy and I are getting a divorce and by the way, he's moving out tonight". OMG, talk about stress on the kids!
What would you do, or what DID you do? I would hate to go behind her back but I gotta do whats best for them also.
HELP
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When we know the living arrangments then I would tell them that part. Kinda "tell them as we know"