why is it that my husband feels it is necessary to lie to me about his affair, he still states that they are "roommates" and that he sleeps in a seperate room. I have found out from a very reliable source that they are now having sex. she is walking around the house in her bra with others around, she makes comments to underage youth that they are hot, told a niece's boyfriend don't be mad if I get drunk and kiss your boyfriend(he is 18 and she is 24 with 2 kids). she has slept with 5 other married men, 3 of the women are my friends. why does he lie? he says he does not want to see me hurt, being dishonest is more hurtful, with the truth which I already know at least I can began the stages of letting go and healing from his controling ways. he still attempts to control me, he is very uncomfortable with the courage to stand up to him and not to take his bullshit.
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