
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
As I walk this land of broken dreams
I have visions of many things
But happiness is just an illusion
Filled with sadness and confusion
What becomes of the brokenhearted
Who had love that's now departed
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
Maybe
Fruits of love grow all around
But for me they come a tumbling down
Every day heartaches grow a little stronger
I can't stand this pain much longer
I walk in shadows searching for light
Cold and alone no comfort in sight
Hoping and praying for someone who cares
Always moving and going nowhere
What becomes of the brokenhearted
Who had love that's now departed
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
Help me, please
I'm searching though I don't succeed
For someones love there's a growing need
All is lost there's no place for beginning
All that's left is an unhappy ending
Now what becomes of the brokenhearted
Who had love that's now departed
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
I'll be searching everywhere
Just to find someone to care
I'll be looking every day
I know I'm gonna find a way
Nothings going to stop me now
I'll find a way somehow
What becomes of the broken hearted
Who had love that's now departed
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind, maybe
Oh yeah
What becomes of the broken hearted
Who had love that's now departed
What becomes of the broken hearted
Who had love that's now departed
What becomes of the broken hearted.
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I would call it surviving!
Just as long as I do not get voted off the island!!
#2
I don't believe they do in the short-term, or through any 'battling', I think (and hope) that everyone comes out a more enlightened person(s) and the experience adds quality to their future life.
So, the long-term picture (I believe) is that everyone can "win".
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It is a Win if you find yourself, at the end of this, with your dignity intact. If you can look back and not be ashamed of your actions. If you are still able to hold your head high.
Yes, a Win is Necessary. They cannot do this.
"They" ?
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They=Those who showed their true colors in the Way that they have lied, cheated, hidden assets, carried tales...you name it.
They=Those who had No Concern or Care for their children.
THEY lost before they even started. It may take a very long time, but eventually They will have a time where this hits them.
#7
I only been married once.
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A song about 'winning', a nice song but....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xK3mVxGfzPY
I don't wanna talk
About things we've gone through
Though it's hurting me
Now it's history
I've played all my cards
And that's what you've done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play
The winner takes it all
The loser's standing small
Beside the victory
That's her destiny
I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking I'd be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules
The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
It's simple and it's plain
Why should I complain
But tell me does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say
Rules must be obeyed
The judges will decide
The likes of me abide
Spectators of the show
Always stay in row
The game is on again
A lover or a friend
A big thing or a small
The winner takes it all
I don't wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
You've come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self-confidence
But you see
The winner takes it all
The winner takes it all
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I now have peace of mind, but I definitely did not 'win'.
#10
Spoken like a true 'big' :-)
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#12
It's tough but you got to.
I went through it, it was hell, but there is light... a strong positive light at the end.
They will not always be 'kids'.
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