
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I believe in love. life is a journey. yes i will love again
I have never gone this long(a year)without a lady in my life and I am not the one night stand kind of guy.
I have a high sex drive and really miss the love and intimacy in a relationship.
My therapist feels that I will feel much better in another year but that seems so long and the thought of long term celibacy is very depressing which I am already dealing with...Argghhh I hate all this, why couldn't she have just loved me like I loved her??????????
I have adjusted to being alone and its not so bad. If its Gods will I can stay single till death do I part...lol.
Yes, if I fall in love I will try again. At my age and income level I could not afford the financial pain of divorce again though. I do not want to be an old man and homeless. Ex's and divorce lawyers have no soul I have found out.
Once I start to date I will have boundaries that are met before any involvment.
1. She will NOT be needy.
2. She will NOT be an alcoholic.
3. She will have worked for her own money and be as well off or better finacially than me.
4. She will NOT be a woman that drug her ex through the coals, or is so liberated to point of being obnoxious. I would much rather grow old laying on couch watching TV with my dog and cat and grand kids when they are over.
So, set some boundaries, and find someone to love if you are so inclined. Just protect yourself because I know one thing for sure...they do.
~Good Luck.
I'm actually over HIM, what he did to me however is what I struggle with.
I just need to pay attention to the little red flags in the future.
I also will become more self-reliant. I learned from my mom that it is bad for a woman to be too independent. Well, I am beginning to think that she was wrong.
Maybe it is okay to seek a relationship in which two independent people are together, with a little give and take and not so much imbalance.
The STBX is an alcoholic and will always be needy. Having someone depend on you is not the answer, at least not for me.