My stbx and I were together 20 years, married 16. He decided that he wanted a newer version that couldn't talk back so he started an affair with a 20 year old, he's 37, who can't speak english. He has told his whole family that nothing will change for the kids and I as he was never home anyway. I don't understand how he could think this. My 7 year old was sick every day for a month! My other two boys, 11 and 12, seem to be handling it okay but I know they are angry. They just don't say anything so I took them to counselling. But nothing has changed. He thinks that all his relationships with his family are the same and he is even calling his brother and sister which he never did before. He's talking to his mother everyday which he never did before. Acts like what he did is not a big deal. Do they ever GET IT? Do they ever feel sorry for what they have done to their family and fully understand the hurt they have caused?
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