
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Don't stand around waiting for the mushroom cloud though. Run away. Do not walk. Move on with your life. The more you sit around and try and analyize what he's up to or what they're doing or how much anyone means to anyone else...you're just giving him control over you.
Control he has no right to exert. The way you end that is...you stop giving him power over your life. He only has as much power over you as you give him.
Refuse to give in to that.
I agree with the other adivce you have been given. Find something to focus on. Make you and your child important. The less you have him on your mind the better you will be.
You may begin to question your own sanity. What you are feeling and what is yet to come is normal. We've all been there.
It hurts me to see your post because it brings back my own memories of feeling rejected. I am SO sorry for you!
Please try to force thoughts of the two of them from your mind. Try to stay busy and keep coming back to DS. As you see, there are many people here who really care!
We are all flawed human beings fumbling our way through life and it does help to hear your point of view.