You need to secure your email account first of all! if she had access to your account or knows how to obtain access...well it's likely no laws have been broken. Internet law is a relatively new field.

Secure your account, tell her that you know she has read your emails (don't argue, just let her know that you know).

talk to your lawyer about the legality of her reading the emails. i guess i don't have to tell you to change the password, or better yet, just start a new address she doesn't have access too.

it just hit me yesterday that maybe my stbx has been reading my emails all along which is why she said we were 'drifting apart'.

really nothing you can do about it except you may end up having to change your nick name here

okay.. so lock your access to the computer.. make yourself the Administrator and lock that down with a password too.
Change your password for the email account too.

got that?.. 3 things to do.

as for can she do that?.. yup.. you were leaving it all open for her to do.
The woman who was kind enough to give me the name of her Shark of a Lawyer.. turns out she guessed her STBEx password, and while he was working overseas she was accessing all his emails here from 6, 000 miles away.. all his correspondence from him and his lawyer.. I lost all respect for her when I found that out.

I had no idea how to contact the man or his lawyer, wish I did.

Last week I did make myself a admin with password protect. I think she read it before that.
Their is a sig at the bottom of my lawyers that says you cannot read the e-mail unless you are the intended recipiant. I have a court date tommorow, I will ask her.
Thanks.

I know the betrayal. My husband found a my private emails with the lawyer too. It's not fair and it doesn't make you feel safe or protected. But for me it was just the beginning of the divorce. The real strategy is yet developing. So I'm trying to say calm. I'm sorry your x is so nosey. I'm still learning how to double think things and look over my shoulder. Hang in there.

Sorry, it got to piss you off, but I read an Email that my X's sent to me in error, it didn't make any real difference but I thought it was pretty funny at the time. But I do know that I wouldn't want my e mails rad by any 1 other then myself. My sympathy goes out to you.