I am just having an extremely tough time dealing with my wife cheating on me and this divorce we are going through. I am so hurt and sad, and she acts like nothing is wrong. She has already started dating and the divorce is not even final yet. Everyone keeps telling me that it will get better with time, but I am really hurting bad. How could a person do this to someone who loved them so much. We were only married for a year and a half, we never argued, always had fun, always laughing, and she goes out of town one weekend(which I told her she should go and have some fun) and then she sleeps with a guy she meets in a bar 3 hours later. I just feel like such a fool, I gave up 5 years of my life for this woman, my plans for a family are gone. I just do not know how I am going to get through this. I keep telling myself that I did not deserve this, but I am starting to think that maybe I did. Everyone is so shocked by this, even her friends cannot beleive that she did this to me. Well, any help would be appreciated, I sure need it.
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