I am on my 3rd divorce, I can honestly say none of them were due to my fault. This 3rd one is the hardest, we still love each other but have realized we are no longer compatable- my husband had major issues when he was little that stayed with him emotionally. He wanted "us" so bad that he made so much effort to be what I needed and wanted in a person in the beginning and I thought that was really him, after a year he stopped making the effort, then later, on-and-off he would make small amounts of effort. But now has realized he is unhappy when he makes the effort and says he doesn't want to keep hurting me. Within the last week we have decided that a divorce is inevitable and best for both of us. Due to finances we will reside as roommates for about six months, that will be hard to deal with in itself, but we also work together. We have chosen not to tell the people at work until we actually move out of the house because they only like gossip and to create more problems. I keep asking myself "why me?". Everyone that knows me says I give 150% in my relationships, jobs and friendships- so I don't understand how I am at a 3rd divorce. Why me?
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