OK, let's say I've learned a lot these past 7-8 months since she left me. She had a relashionship with somebody else and thats been over for a while and she's back home. She was going to invest in repairing the relashionship 1000%. Well it's not 1000% more like 20%. We are just like friends who hud eatchother at the most once a day. She gets goosbumos just thinking of kissing or beeing intimate with me. This frustrates me and makes me feel bad. But I try not to put pressure on her and want to give her time at her own pace. Sitting around and hoping. Why they leave us for someone else is because we have failed to make them feel special and if you look hard at what your relashionship was, you will probobly find all the answers with time. Hard to accept but true i believe. Now this is not entented to make us feel guilty beacuse we did our best and with the knowledge we had. We tried and tried hard but it wasn't enough or right. I still belive that dovorce is not the solution to this but communication and communicating about feelings and the relashionship, not about whats for dinner or whats on TV and bills. So that what I think, any responces, am I wrong?