Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why is it so hard to accept that your stbx is living with OW?
A little background for those that don't know my story: Stbx had what started as an emotional affair with our babysitter. It led to more and more phone calls, time together, etc. Of course, he would always claim they were only friends. This went on for 2 years, and now since stbx moved out in August she is always at his apartment when our son is there. So I'm almost positive they are living together. My stbx has had affairs before, and has only officially admitted to one. But it was the same thing - he would always tell me they were only friends, just the same lies.
He spent the last 2 years trying to brainwash me into thinking that him and babysitter were only friends. I, of course, always felt different - and my gut feelings are rarely wrong. Anyway, I had thought I had accepted the reality that they were a couple, but for some reason I am having an impossible time accepting that they are now living together. The hurt is just too deep. I realize what a jerk he is. I know I am going to be better off. The way I'm dealing with it right now is trying to put stbx out of my head completely. I have to still talk to him simply because we have a child together.
Is there some way to just accept the reality that they are living together????? Every time I take 2 steps forward, I fall about 4 steps back. I know I have control only over the way I react.
A little background for those that don't know my story: Stbx had what started as an emotional affair with our babysitter. It led to more and more phone calls, time together, etc. Of course, he would always claim they were only friends. This went on for 2 years, and now since stbx moved out in August she is always at his apartment when our son is there. So I'm almost positive they are living together. My stbx has had affairs before, and has only officially admitted to one. But it was the same thing - he would always tell me they were only friends, just the same lies.
He spent the last 2 years trying to brainwash me into thinking that him and babysitter were only friends. I, of course, always felt different - and my gut feelings are rarely wrong. Anyway, I had thought I had accepted the reality that they were a couple, but for some reason I am having an impossible time accepting that they are now living together. The hurt is just too deep. I realize what a jerk he is. I know I am going to be better off. The way I'm dealing with it right now is trying to put stbx out of my head completely. I have to still talk to him simply because we have a child together.
Is there some way to just accept the reality that they are living together????? Every time I take 2 steps forward, I fall about 4 steps back. I know I have control only over the way I react.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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Has anyone tried these supplements? Do they give MGers more quality of life by improving memory and overall well being?Thanks!Barbel
As many women here have said, you should have in your custody agreement, no sleepovers with opposite sex non-spouses present. You do not want your child hanging around with whores as it will cause untold future damage in their opposite sex relations.