Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

11,671 Members
99,984 Posts
3 Online
Relationships & Sexuality
/ Breakups & Divorce Support Group

why is it?

deleted_user
deleted_user
Why is it that when the STBX's don't get what they want...they IMMMEDIATLY have to start lying about shit that never, ever happened? I mean why is it that people just cannot move on after a split up and let stuff go?

I am not fighting about it...don't want shit...so why is it HE still seems to get off by telling lie after lie? I just do not get why divorce always turns people into sour, mean, beligerant people?

I mean , move on...I have....so why can't he?
deleted_user
deleted_user
grrrr! I hear ya! Move on, please!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
it would be much easier if they would move on...i wondeder if it is just to make them feel better about leaving?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I mean...I am not going to go aroudn bashing him on the board...I had a really nice time in our 7 1/2 year marriage...I got to have animals...I loved him and I had a good life...but it is time to move forward...why be mean abotu it...I mean...I don't want to be his friend, but get over it...it is done already

ya know
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know exactly how you feel. My s2bx has used all kinds of tactics to get me back...started with acting pitiful, then begging, then suicidal, then anger (he served the divorce papers, WTF does he want me back then?). He had tarnished my character with his male friends and of course they told their wives. So now, the wives are not encouraged to talk to me coz I am the "bad" one for quitting and not trying.

Sometimes, men and women look at situations but have different interpretations depending on their subjective feelings and experiences. He is angry right now and what he sees maybe totally different from what you see, hence your feeling that he is lying. But maybe in his eyes, he's actually not lying. I'm blabbering...took Vicodin for this toothache and I am in Lalaland.
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • traceysmith

    Getting immune system removed

    Posted by: traceysmith
    Last Reply: MsADSF
    3
    I have had Ttp twice this year I'm 48 my doc said the next time Ttp happens they will take my immune system. Has anyone had this done? Does it work ? What other problems do u get?
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: mlr0853
    7955
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??