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Why dont I want to go out with friends?

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I am trying to find out why I never want to do anything or go anywhere...
I am 25 yrs old, have no responsibilities and would rather sit on the sofa watching tv then going out with friends....WHY?????
Its been like this for at least 5 years maybe more I may have always been like this but I dont know why...
Its july 4th I could go to a friends bbq but instead I chose to sit here on the couch watch tv and go online.
I dont like people being around me when i watch tv. When I am home I prefer everyone to leave me alone(I live with my sister, her husband and my mom) I would sit all day and watch tv everyday if i could....
I should be going out, having fun, but I sit home on weekends even when there is something to do. Can someone help me figure out why I do this? I am happy just watching tv but I dont think its normal to choose sitting alone watching tv then seeing friends. And yes I could do it for days and days ---I have....When I do go out I have a good time but I still would rather sit home.
When I met my ex fiance It was diffrent for a while - got excited about going out and seeing him but once we lived together all I wanted to do was watch tv. Its a big part of what broke us up.. I never wanted to hang out with friends...Why dont I wanna have fun?
I am 25 yrs old, have no responsibilities and would rather sit on the sofa watching tv then going out with friends....WHY?????
Its been like this for at least 5 years maybe more I may have always been like this but I dont know why...
Its july 4th I could go to a friends bbq but instead I chose to sit here on the couch watch tv and go online.
I dont like people being around me when i watch tv. When I am home I prefer everyone to leave me alone(I live with my sister, her husband and my mom) I would sit all day and watch tv everyday if i could....
I should be going out, having fun, but I sit home on weekends even when there is something to do. Can someone help me figure out why I do this? I am happy just watching tv but I dont think its normal to choose sitting alone watching tv then seeing friends. And yes I could do it for days and days ---I have....When I do go out I have a good time but I still would rather sit home.
When I met my ex fiance It was diffrent for a while - got excited about going out and seeing him but once we lived together all I wanted to do was watch tv. Its a big part of what broke us up.. I never wanted to hang out with friends...Why dont I wanna have fun?
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Maybe you should talk to your general practioner about how you are feeling. It seems you are choosing to isolate yourself from the rest of the world. There are many of us here who would love to have the opportunities you are passing up.
I've seen your profile and have to say you are MUCH too young to be a couch potato. If you don't break this cycle soon - you are headed for an adult life riddled with health problems. HUGS
This to say that I really think you may be suffering from a form of depression and please know that this is a mental disease, not your true persona, so you can get better. Life sucks now because of this nightmare with my husband, but at least I have found the will to get out and contact friends and create my own social circle (a step at a time). If feels like something has snapped back and I even feel like I want to be glamorous again. Pity that this seems a bit too late for my husband. One way or another you will get out of this rut, but do take action...even a little thing each day...read a book in the park instead of watching TV on a Sunday..go for a walk for 1/2 hour..Good luck and a big hug