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Yesturday I changed the living room around, put a recliner in there that was in the computer room. Then I brought my kids air hockey table up from the basement and put it in the computer room so they can play with it more. I don't like them being down in the basement.
They told their father about it last night. They were excited about it and he says to them "Why is your mother moving things around when she will be moving in two months?" Nothing will be final until at least March.
My oldest son chimes in and says to my middle that it will be up to the courts. He said a friend of his is living in the house with his mom until he is eighteen at which then the house will go up for sale. I just told him it is possible we will be moving, but right now nothing is written in stone.
They told their father about it last night. They were excited about it and he says to them "Why is your mother moving things around when she will be moving in two months?" Nothing will be final until at least March.
My oldest son chimes in and says to my middle that it will be up to the courts. He said a friend of his is living in the house with his mom until he is eighteen at which then the house will go up for sale. I just told him it is possible we will be moving, but right now nothing is written in stone.
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Because he wants to beat you down with his negativity, wants to bad-mouth you to the kids, dont buy into it or do it back.....keep your head up
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I always try to remain positive for the kids. It helps that my oldest has some understanding and speaks up. I have told my lawyer, she has sent numerous letters to his lawyer and the law gaurdian about it. I have copies of them all, but he still continues.
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My guess is that they are miserable..and want us to be miserable too.
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well, mine is just incredibly selfish and really doesn't think about how the things he does and says affects our child.
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dont let it get to you. i love how they think they know everything that is going to happen in court before you even get there. duh, she'll be moving in a couple of months. how the hell does he know that? let him live in his own negative miserable little world.
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to be honest, my wife did the same thing when i moved out....actually, it looked very nice. i think some would look at changing the "familiar" surroundings is an attempt to restructure a positive atmosphere... me thinks however that some are a bit too insecure and are unwilling to believe that the better half can move on.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
